Those who talk most about the blessings of marriage and the constancy of its vows are the very people who declare that if the chains were broken and the prisoners were left free to choose, the whole social fabric would fly asunder. You can`t have the argument both ways. If the prisoner is happy, why lock him in? If he is not, why pretend that he is?
Allow yourself to think only those thoughts that match your principles and can bear the bright light of day. Day by day, your choices, your thoughts, your actions fashion the person you become. Your integrity determines your destiny.